In my previous blog you guys read that how we need to set boundaries for expectation , If we expect from someone but. guys in these manner if you unable to set your boundaries for someone & continue expect and also you know that It may be harmful for you. But in sometimes  you can’t stop yourself for expectation from the person from which you expect the most.

Then, if you agree with me then replace your expectation those person to another – But who another person ?  This question is arise if you think these. Sometimes those another person will not hurt you, take care of you & always know and understand your feelings and try to not hurt you at all. If they only loved you. But this person is really exist in these world or not ?

The answer is Yes, this person is really exist in this world & the person is ? who is she/he – I think you will understood who is that person & the person is YOU !!

If you asked with yourself that you hurt me , your heart tell you no, you always take care of your & yourself take care of you.

And then if you expect from yourself then you will see the changes that if you stop expecting from others Then automatically you stop hurting observe that guys.

If you start expecting from yourself Then you will see that you start changing yourself. & start doing those activities which makes better you. You start developing yourself because you in the real manner start loving yourself & do the things which is great for you. So always asked your self that the thing you decide is good for you or not. Because no one can understand you better then yourself.

I know guys you should not immediately stop expecting from the person . Who you expect the most. But guys, If you know that it hurts you or it might be harmful for you than start expecting from yourself.

My dear friends in these my blog I am trying to tell you that sometimes your expectation gives you very bad or worst pain if its not does in reality that’s why focus to be happy & makes other person Happy.