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Are You Comparing Yourself ..

Comparison is good or bad ?

In These world every human being has their own mind, body , personality and their way of living . But most of the persons are worried to think about other persons personality , growth , lifestyle , relationship and all .

But actually these type of persons are not think that what they are doing by thinking and comparing their self with others. They cannot do very big thing but they do a work which is an [ BREAK EVEN POINT ] which means no profit no loss.

So, why we need to compare our self with others ? Why we need these ?

If you  does not believe or not love yourself then you will definitely compare yourself with others.

But , In other words if you compare [ SUCCESSFUL PERSON’S SACRIFICES ] and learn from their sacrifices not from success then you will see. That comparing yourself with others is wasting of time.

And try to build your unique and incredible personality more unique and incredible .

So, Dear Friends let’s discuss some main challenges or situation when most of the persons are depressed & by these depression they start comparing their self with other’s.

1.  At The Time of Failure

In the situation when you receive failure or an unable to receive something , in these moment most of the person start comparing their self with the person who received the success

But actually they cannot compare their hard work with that person & these is the mistake . The failure person’s mostly does. they cannot compare their hard work & sacrifice but they compare only their success & achievements 

You need to understand that comparing our self at the time of our failure is an worst activity. At these time you need to compare yourself with YOU . Because the person who gives you success and achievements is you not other’s success.

Think that if the other person is achieving  their goals & object Then why not me ? Try to learn from their sacrifices , daily routine , hustle and hard work not from their success.

2. Comparison inhance depression

We need to understand that in these world every and each person has their own. Personality their own mind & way of thinking and living for their life. If , you agree with these then why you comparing yourself ?

When you mostly compare yourself with others then these comparison increase depression in your mind & depression  for What ? Because my dear friends , you cannot replace sun to moon , and moon to sun , They both were have their own and unique personality. they cannot replace each other’s places.

So, Why You ? compare yourself , Try to know your unique habits, hobbies, know your worth and then Shine with these things , Which you have , Try to identify your uniqueness among the persons And enjoy your own life.

3. Comparison in little or small things and habits

Comparison in small or in little things like having accessories , or a temporary things or material have an person . These type of comparison is normal and it is an type of childish activity.

But when a person compare their all and every things with an another person and try to make like those person. YES , at these moment person make mistake by comparing their self with other person. 

If you know that you have your own and unique personality then you will definitely Not compare yourself with another persons.  If you compare your situations and judge yourself then it makes you demotivate about yourself.

Matching your situation , your life, your achievements , your growth. Then sometimes it may causes you a very big problem. And the problem is you cannot identify yourself that actually WHO IS YOU ARE ?

What is a Result of Comparison Habit  ?

When you every time compare yourself with other person and also compare your things with other , you compare yourself with other. Then it may cause demotivation in yourself . And you cannot identify yourself and also you cannot be happy , When you every time comparing yourself . And it’s true when you comparing yourself . Then you cannot be happy any more.

So, Dear friends if you compare yourself then try to stop yourself and Enjoy your own life and your own lifestyle & if you want any of the thing or material & if your parents are unable to afford , Then you need to understand your parents and try to work hard & work on your aim to achieve your goal & then you will also makes your parents proud 🙂

How to Get Away from Comparison ?

Friends , you need to know that if you comparing yourself with others then you will become like that & the answer is not at all . If you want to become successful person then you need to Identify your self ,

Ask yourself that how you make yourself more incredible by using your own personality , Identify your qualities , your worth and try to build your own personality then you will see that comparing yourself with other is wasting of time.

So, Try to be Happy in your life and Take Care 🙂