Self Love is Everything…
Most of the people think that loving our self or being yourself is selfish & also most of the persons tell them selfish. But in these world other than our parents if other persons is not interested in you then what should you do ?
You beg them , you sit down on their foot or what , should you do ?
Every persons have the respect for their self then. They cannot or never do these things. because guys, everyone has their own self-respect & everyone try to maintain these.
But in these situation most of the persons called those person that He / She is selfish person.
We need to know that if we love our self & respect our self . then also try to maintain the respect & reputation for other persons . Because these activities double up your self respect.
Also , most of the person think that the person who are selfish is only love their self the most. But guys being selfish is not about self love.
But the self love is , YOU SHOULD DO THE ACTIVITY WHICH IS GOOD FOR YOU & ALSO FOR OTHERS.
You try to maintain yourself respect & also other’s . Build self respect for yourself in your own mind & eyes. Because , Firstly if you does not respect or love yourself Then it is impossible that others is respect you, IF YOU DOES NOT GIVE HARM TO ANY OF THE PEROSN THEN YOU WILL ALSO NOT RECEIVE HARMFUL SITUATION.
Guys, other then your parents in these fake world no one is able to understand your clarity , your honesty , your hearts purity then what should you do with them ?
then , In these situation it is necessary to have a great self love & self care for yourself.
Because , If no one is think good for you & also doe snot want to see you at the top of your future . Then it is necessary to become selfish for our self . Because the person whom you try to makes happy . they want to fall you . then it is mandatory to became selfish for our self because, behind your life there is a two persons. Who want to see you at the top of your career , your life , they want that you achieved your goal & become successful & that two person is your parents Who Only Want To See You Happy In Their Life Guys.
If the other person does not want good for you then set your boundaries & understand that. The person might be harmful for you then try to stay away from these types of persons in your life. Because , after you are doing good for them & that person does not want to see you at success, Then Take Care of Yourself & try to stay away from these types of persons in your life.
5 Ways to Increase Your Personal Growth—
1- Firstly decide your aim and goal if you does not decide it yet & start work on them .
Guys if you work or study and only you now that you will score great marks or become topper then what after that what should you do after gain a very goods marks what is a advantage of that marks in your real life ? friends , if you does not decide your aim and goal then you will definitely confuse that why you should do hard work for scoring high that’s why you need to decide you aim that why you should do these hard work what is the consideration of that that’s why you need to decide your career and aim and after that put your 100 % efforts and hard work on that to achieved your goal 🙂
2- Failure if you get failure in any of the situation then don’t be disappoint accept your failure as a challenge for yourself .
At the time of your failure don’t be disappoint and don’t start comparing yourself if you become disappoint then what should do you will not observe the actual value of failure that’s why observe your failure as a challenge and face them.
3- Try to never & never compare yourself with others if you want to become like someone’s who is your idol then learn from their hard work
If you start learning from other sacrifices and also put your sacrifice on that then you will never compare yourself with others in your life .
4- Always Focus and manage your time – when you start managing your time then you will see that your personality become more effective then before.
If you are good in managing your time then you will not so far in your goal because you have the power to achieved your goal and also the person who manages time in their life the person can do any thing in their life.
5- If no one trust in you and also not in your goal then trust in your self and your goal because the person who helps you to achieved your goal is you not other. 🙂
Friends , I’m try to tell you that if the person who is selfish is does not meant that he / she is only doing good for them self . But after some of the circumstances they need to become selfish because of some peoples .
